Ten Steps Towards Happiness (2015)

MithrilTuxedo•about 1 hour ago

I upped the font size on my Pixel recently and this is one of those sites where (in Firefox) the sidebar takes up more than 50% of the width of the screen and retains tiny text while the article itself wraps on a couple words per line.

ncr100•19 minutes ago

1. Invest in your senses

I see you noticing a thing, with your senses. Sincerely:

A (used) folding phone offers 66% body content, 33% sidebar. Is a noticeable improvement.

NathanielK•10 minutes ago

I just use the reader mode built into my browser. 100% content.

I don't want large phone though. I'd prefer to have a less appealling small phone that encourages me to spend more time off it.

two_handfuls•about 2 hours ago

Came in not expecting much, but those are all good points, expressed concisely.

jader201•about 1 hour ago

Related, earlier today:

The Price of Happiness (62 points, 32 comments)

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48996364

ldayley•about 1 hour ago

I was just reminiscing about an old Pieter Hintjens post with my kids yesterday. They still hold up. RIP

(Needs a 2016 in the title)

Pieter_U_Da_Man•35 minutes ago

Shortly before he passed during his AMA he offered some advice I try to follow.

This doesn't really relate to psychopaths but I just wanted to say I've been a follower of yours for years since I discovered your state machine language, multi-threaded kernel and web server back in the 90's. The AMQP / ZMQ work you've done is inspiring. How do you do it?

Pieterh

Well, thank you! :)

I don't know how my brain works, but it likes to take huge, complex situations, learn them inside and out, and then and find simple paths through them. I've always done this since I was young. In software, that means writing simple things that solve large problems, well. In writing, this means explaining mind-boggling things in simple words.

It does take time.

warkdarrior•about 1 hour ago

I have been trying to square such suggestions for happiness with G.B. Shaw's quote:

> "The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man."

The steps towards happiness basically require accepting the world as is and appreciating it as is. Does that mean happy people are reasonable? And if they are, does that mean that happy people do not drive progress? Are there happy AND unreasonable people?

ScoobleDoodle•36 minutes ago

One can be content or happy without being complacent. Also finding peace with what you have can open motivation to make change. The discontent of one’s current situation can be debilitating and demotivating so removing the mood or feeling can actually enable action.

But then what you put effort in will resonate with you and not be the same as what you would do when trying to chase something to impress someone outside.

There is this strange paradox of accepting a situation enables changing it. I hope others who read this who understand it better will share their more lucid insights.

spaqin•about 1 hour ago

It's not a binary choice, but a spectrum. It depends on the scope and your own abilities - you can't turn a river around with a stick, but you can clean up your part of the lawn. Keep control over what you can control, and don't get too upset about what you can't - so with a little effort you change (or progress) a little part of the world.

Funnily enough I also know some happy people who adhere to none of these points.

bch•about 1 hour ago

> you can't turn a river around with a stick

Somebody forgot to tell this[0] guy.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dashrath_Manjhi

bch•about 1 hour ago

You can appreciate the world and still do Hard Work to make it better - definitely not mutually exclusive. Be unreasonable. Be Progressive.

Temper it all with Desiderata[0], since we’re being philosophical.

[0] https://www.desiderata.com/desiderata.html

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